Lucy Bisi-onabanjo: ‘I Voted For Buhari Despite Jailing My Husband Because...'

Mrs. Lucy Onabanjo, widow of Chief Olabisi Onabanjo, Second Republic governor of Ogun State, will be 90 years old tomorrow. Even at old age, her skin still shines and eyes see clearly, though with glasses. Her voice remains strong. She is smart and alert to the environment.The nonagerian shared with Sunday Vanguard the story of her life before and after she met her husband, a prolific writer who wrote a popular column under the sobriquet, Aiyekooto.
She explained why she cast her vote for President Muhammadu Buhari during the last elections despite his headship of the military regime that jailed her husband after soldiers sacked the Second Republic civilian administration in 1983.
Mrs. Onabanjo, who fielded questions at her Fidipote Street, Ijebyu-Ode residence, also spoke on preparations for her 90th birthday.
On October 26, you are going to be 90. How do you feel?
At 90, I feel healthy and beautiful and cute, no problem. I am well. I enjoy everything, my food, children, not much different from when I was 70, 80 I am still alert.
How was childhood, growing up like?
Not too tough. I grew up in a family of about 25 sisters and brothers. I am about the last child of my father. My father was a rich man, he married about 15 wives. At the time I was born, my father was a bit old. So I went to Lagos with one of my sisters. That time my father couldn’t afford to send about five of us to school because he was old and there wasn’t much money. All our elder sisters and brothers were married and had left the family house. So the five of us had to depend on our mother. The first child of my mother took me to Lagos, and sent me to St Mary’s (Catholic) Convent School. I attended the school up to Standard Six. Standard Six of those days was like the university of today. After studying there, I applied to be a nurse at Lantoro in Abeokuta. And they said I couldn’t be a nurse but a good teacher. So, I went to St. Agnes Teacher Training College in Broad Street to train as a teacher.
How old were you when you met your late husband?
You have to do the subtraction, because I don’t put any thing in mind. But, he died 25 years ago, you can subtract that from my age.
How did you meet him?
I taught in Lagos, about three schools, all Catholic. I taught in Zaria. After that, I came back to Lagos where I went to St. Agnes Teacher College. After that, I got married. I was still living with my sister whose husband also had a nephew staying with us. At that time, my late husband was at Baptist Academy in Lagos, and this nephew of my sister’s husband also went to the school; so, that was how we met through the nephew. It was not only him then, I had many other suitors, educated ones. Through the intervention of the nephew, many things happened and we got married.
Being trained by nuns, did you ever consider not getting married?
They were there to educate us in the way of the Lord. I never thought of not getting married.
What attracted you to your husband?
He was very brilliant; he spoke queen’s English. That attracted me to him . And that time I wasn’t a baby, I too had ego. At that time, you couldn’t be in school and say you are walking around with boys.
How was life as the wife of a journalist?
The Lord has made me a contented person; I didn’t have friends even among the teachers in the schools where I taught. All I was concerned with was ‘Good Morning ma’, and ‘good morning sir’, and everybody would go his way. Because I was a contented person, being married to a journalist was nothing to me. He was a good husband, but I hardly enjoyed his company.
When we were in Lagos, he was in the North writing about corruption in the government of the day. If he leaves Zaria today, he will go to Sokoto or somewhere else tomorrow. He knew everywhere in Nigeria at the tip of his fingers. He was hardly at home, but the Lord gave me good children; so they were always with me. I never felt it, if he was around or not. But any time he was around once in a while, we would go on holidays in Cotonou, Accra; that was what I enjoyed about him.